We all like diamonds in the rough and needs to be cleaned and refined before we can attract the beautiful things we desire and dream about. The law of attraction will only give us what we match vibrationally.
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Are you a diamond in the rough?
June 1st, 2010Oprah Winfrey talks about the law of attraction
May 28th, 2010Watch this video where Oprah Winfrey is being interviewed and talks about how she applied the law of attraction before she became a multi-millionaire.
Please comment and lets discuss. What do you think of the fact that Oprah states the law of attraction is not the only Universal law?
Law of Transformation teleseminar
May 25th, 2010Wow, what a blast I had last night at the Law of Transformation teleseminar. If you’re struggling with applying the law of attraction and missed it, you missed a lot of useful content. But all is not lost, cause I scheduled another teleseminar this Thursday. Go and register at http://how-to-manifest-your-desires.com
To your success,
Does your mind need a super nanny?
May 7th, 2010If you cannot focus on one thing at a time, then you need a super nanny for your mind. Don’t know who Super Nanny is?
Well, Super Nanny is a parenting show that runs on ABC and features a British woman by the name of Jo Frost. Jo is an expert in turning wayward out of control children into disciplined and loving beings.
The show usually starts with a married couple or a single mother with a two or more out of control kids who do whatever they want, whenever they want and don’t follow any rules or orders from their parents. So, after having tried everything they know to get their children into line, the desperate parents finally turn to Super Nanny for help.
Super Nanny would come over and first just watch the parents interact with their children. Then she will come up with a plan of action that she expects the parents to implement.
At the end of the intervention, the parents would be turned into effective parents with new skills and the children would listen to their parents and order would be restored in this former chaotic household.
So, you’re probably wondering… what does my mind have to do with Super nanny and unruly children?
Plenty, actually… you see, just as children become unruly if they are not subjected to a structure with consistent boundaries, so too your mind does whatever it wants if it doesn’t have boundaries that are consistent.
That is why you will find that you have difficulty concentrating on one thing for a period of time, because your mind is not used to it.
If your mind has been used to thinking about failure or lack, you cannot suddenly start thinking success, just as you cannot suddenly make an unruly child listen to you.
You have to recognize that you’re dealing with a habit… and the only way to break an undesirable habit is to introduce another habit, which is more desirable.
A habit is a set of unconscious behaviors that we engage in. When we do something consistently for more than 21 days it will become a habit (automatic behavior).
So what Super Nanny does is… she teaches the parents new strategies (which will become habits). As they introduce these new strategies in the home, it consistently required different behaviors from the children. The result: the children formed new habits.
The children were the way they were, because of the way the parents were. In other words, the bad habits of the parents instilled bad habits in the children.
When Super Nanny arrived, she changed the bad habits of the parents into good habits, which resulted in the children developing new habits.
Finally, order and peace is restored.
The same thing is going on with your mind. Trying to apply the law of attraction with old habits will not work. You are defeated, before you even begin. Your mind will constantly go back to what it knows, which are the thoughts and beliefs aligned to failure. If you want to attract success, you need to create new habits and new ways of thinking that are aligned to success and will support your expansion.
Luke 5:37-38 “And no one pours new wine into old wineskins. If he does, the new wine will burst the skins, the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, new wine must be poured into new wineskins”.
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When Riches Begin to Come
May 5th, 2010Napoleon Hill made the following profound statement in his landmark book, “Think and Grow Rich”. Here is what he said: “When riches begin to come, they come so quickly and in such great abundance that one wonders where they have been hiding during all those lean years”.
What this statement suggests is that it is normal for you to have a period of draught or lack. But the quote suggests that there will also be a period of prosperity, when you will overflow with so much good things, to the point when you will wonder “where it had been hiding during all the lean years”.
One just needs to look around you to realize that the Universe goes through cycles. One example is the natural seasons of summer, autumn, winter and spring. Each of these seasons are different and transform the landscape in a way that only one season can. No one season is better than the other, because each season brings something special to appreciate about life.
Spring is the season when flowers and trees start to bloom. Summer is the season when we are all outdoors and enjoy the warm weather. During autumn the trees and flowers shed their leaves and prepare for the winter. This too is a special time as showcased in the movie “Autumn in New York”.
Winter allows us to play in the snow and do things that we wouldn’t be able to do in summer, such as play winter sports, dress up in our warm clothes and cuddle up next to each other.
There are also other events that signify different seasons and times. For example, wildfires burn the vegetation and create the perfect conditions for new plants to grow.
Just as there are different natural times and seasons that bring different conditions, so too there are spiritual season and times in our lives. Some are more like the natural seasons of autumn and winter, while others more closely resemble seasons of Spring and Summer.
Each of these times in our lives follow a sequence, where each season and event prepares for the next season or time in your life. If you’re not familiar with what is happening you may get frustrated because you expect something different from what you’re experiencing. Unfortunately your frustrations are not helpful, because they keep you in the situation where you don’t want to be.
However, when we recognize that what is happening is part of a natural cycle, we can let go and trust the process.
95% of all self-made millionaires and billionaires went through a lean period in which some of them faced bankruptcy. However they persevered through that period, because they knew it was just a season. And sure enough, their season of prosperity eventually came around.
As human beings we don’t like the lean times in our lives. We want things to always go well, but trust me, we all need those lean times. It is the lean times that turn us into better human beings, if we learn the lessons they teach us. However, those of us who don’t learn and adjust unfortunately fail to get to the promised land, which is the abundance and prosperity we all seek. Instead we permanently face lean times.
So, allow me to encourage you if you’re currently facing lean times. It is something normal, in spite of what others may say. Keep doing what you love with all your heart and trust that whatever you want is on its way.
More than the law of attraction
April 28th, 2010Success is often determined not by how fast you can run or how intelligent you are… It’s not how many times you failed or how long it takes.
It’s about finishing the race. I know people who have taken more than a day to finish the New York City Marathon. It’s OK to take a rest now and then if you need to, but always finish the race.
If you want to make your dreams come true you require something that is not often addressed in the law of attraction circles, called “courage” and “adaptability”.
Sometimes people want their dreams to unfold a certain way or they only want to take specific predetermined steps to accomplish their goals. Or they want things to be perfect before they even take the next step.
Well guess what… if that’s you, your dreams will probably not come true. You must take life as it comes and make the best of it.
Yes, when you begin to dream, the law of attraction will be activated and will start to attract the people, the resources and the circumstances that you need. However you still have got to take advantage of all that…
Meeting and introducing yourself to the people and sharing your idea with them. You’ll have to apply yourself to the circumstances and you’ll still need to properly use the resources.
When I go around on the Internet I still hear people make comments that attempt to put down someone else’s contribution. For example, when referring to the goals scored by Lionel Messi, Barcelona’s World Player of the Year, they would say things like, “he only scored because someone else supplied the perfect pass”.
But the reality is that Messi still had to dribble around the remaining defender and score, which is not as easy as some would have you believe. I have seen players who had to do less than Messi, in order to score, yet still fail to do so.
I have seen players fail to score, actually miss an open goal-mouth, when it appeared ridiculously easy to put the ball in the back of the net.
I have also seen people who had all the opportunities and resources they needed, yet failed to succeed in life.
Similarly, I have seen people who started with absolutely nothing, being homeless and having nothing to eat, yet rose to become multi-millionaires and billionaires.
It’s not what you have, but what you do with what you have.
“All your dreams can come true if you have the courage to pursue them”.
Walt Disney
All the adversity I’ve had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me… You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you”.
Walt Disney
The law of attraction works… it works all the time, but it works infinitely better when you gain a determined mindset. A mindset that says “I’ll do whatever it takes”!
How much do you want it?
April 20th, 2010When it comes to manifesting your desires, you’re often told that you should either do a many number of things including visualization and affirmations and being happy.
However, there is something that I found which is far more powerful and may even work faster than if you only use the techniques the gurus tell you and it is this:
How much do you want it?
Yes, how much do you want all those things that you have identified as the one thing that will make your life complete?
How much you want it, will of course determine what you’re willing to do to get it.
Wanting something so much that you’re willing to face whatever life throws at you, causes the Universe to often yield to you whatever you want, even if it seems impossible.
I recently watched a Tyra
Banks show and there was a
girl who auditioned for the
”America’s next top Model. On
the surface, she appeared no
different from all the other girls until she told her story. This girl had this dream… a burning desire to audition for ”America’s Next Top Model” and to become a super model.
So she packed her bags, and left her hometown for New York. she arrived with just a little money… She had no place to sleep, and soon she ran out of money.
Because she had nowhere else to go, she slept at the Port Authority Terminal in 8th street for a period of time, until the Top Model auditions were held.
Now some people may call this dangerous and it is, but if you have a dream that tears you up inside then you’re prepared to risk it all.
“I believe that one of life’s greatest risks is never daring to risk.”
Oprah Winfrey
I know people who even risk death to fulfill a dream like the adventurers Bertrand Piccard and Brian Jones who were the first persons to fly non-stop around the world in a balloon.
The more sober may even call them foolish. But then I guess, to become super rich rich and super successful you have to be a bit foolish. You have to not only take risks, but be prepared to fail and be called a fool.
Those who do so are the ones who emerge as the winners, while the “sober minded” educated folks become their employees.
Fortune favors the brave” is a quote that was uttered by Virgil Aeneid, a Roman epic poet who lived 70 BC – 19 BC.
More than 2000 years ago wise man and women already knew this powerful truth… that fortune favors the brave. And of course, the bigger the risk you’re facing, the bigger the reward.
“It is good to dream, but it is better to dream and work. Faith is mighty,
but action with faith is mightier. Desiring is helpful, but work and desire
are invincible”
Thomas Robert Gaines
This is what will ultimately determine if you’ll manifest your desires.
Are you running away from the desires of your heart?
April 10th, 2010Yesterday while I was sitting on my bed working on my laptop I suddenly heard flapping wings. When looked up I saw a small bird flying around in my bedroom.
I was stunned for a moment, trying to figure out how the bird could have entered the house. So I just sat there for a moment watching it, flying from window to window as it looked for a way to escape.
After watching the bird for about two or three minutes and seeing that it wouldn’t be able to escape I decided to catch it and set it free.
So, I got up and tried to catch the bird, which was trying to avoid being caught. After chasing it around for about 3 minutes I finally cornered and caught the little bird.
It was so exhausted of all its efforts to try and escape and was obviously very scared. It probably expected to be killed any moment now.
However, I didn’t kill it. I took it outside and released it. But strangely enough, it didn’t fly away immediately. It said at the same place where I put it down for a little while before it eventually flew away.
Afterwards I contemplated what had just happened. And as I thought about it, I started to see similarities between what had just happened and what is happening daily with us in a spiritual way.
Most of us do not like what we are experiencing daily, in other words we don’t like our lives and we want to change it. So we start to pray about it, and affirm it, and visualize it.
And before long, a series of things start to happen. It seems as if things are going from bad to worse, and we become even more unhappy.
So, you do whatever you can to resent and resist all these new “bad” events.
But what you do not know is that these events were set in motion by your desires. Your desire to be free… to have more money… to be more successful and to have more personal fulfillment.
You activated the law of attraction and the Universe responded, putting the process in motion.
But unfortunately you don’t see it that way, and you resist it… in essence resisting the very things you say you want.
When that bird ended up in my bedroom, it was outside of its comfort zone. It wanted to get out of that situation, and was doing everything that it knew how, but wasn’t succeeding.
So I saw its plight, and got up to rescue it. However the bird didn’t see it that way.
In my getting up and trying to rescue it, it saw danger and a terrible outcome. It expected to be killed. It wanted to remain in control at all cost, so as to prevent that.
If it had just let go, I would have been able to catch it sooner and would have been able to release it sooner.
However, it didn’t. It tried to get away and flew into mirrors and into the window glass, hurting itself and causing unnecessary stress that it could have avoided.
I eventually caught the bird and it realized that I wasn’t planning to harm it after all.
So you too are running, and running until you can’t run anymore. Running from what you deem to be a terrible outcome, which is actually your freedom disguised as some unwelcome experience. You want to keep control at all cost, because you’re afraid that the Universe will not supply in your needs. In other words, you don’t have faith… that things will work out.
The sooner you realize that the things that are happening to you today are not there to harm you, but to free you, the sooner you’ll have the things you’ve always wanted.
Whether it is more money… better health, or more happiness… It is all ready and waiting for you as soon as you just let go and let God take control.
I’m reminded at this time of the saying, “whatever doesn’t kill you, can only make you stronger.”
Can you increase your faith?
April 7th, 2010I have always wondered why birds can sit on a live electric wire and not get electrocuted. However, I remember occasions where I heard that some of them got electrocuted.
So the other day I was having an interesting discussion with a good friend of mine who is also an electrical engineer. We were talking about electricity and the law of attraction in general.
Suddenly, I remembered that I always wanted to know why birds don’t get electrocuted and I posed the question to him. And here is what he told me.
”The reason the birds are not electrocuted is, because they only touch one wire at a time. However, if they were to touch both wires at the same time, they would be killed instantly.”
So I asked him, what about human beings? He said that we too could touch one wire at a time and be safe, provided we’re suspended in the air and don’t touch the ground. However, the moment we touch the ground or both wires at the same time we’ll be fried.
Here’s what he told me. The electric current is there and potentially ready to flow through you, and kill you, as soon as you touch the other wire or touch the ground. But until you do that… nothing will happen.
Do you see why that’s so powerful… That perfectly describes the potential in you, and me and every other human being.
You have this potential to change your life at any given moment. It is there, waiting and ready… the law of attraction, ever consistent and always working is there waiting and ready… and the moment you tap into it, your life will change. However, until you take that “one action” and touch both wires or touch the ground, nothing will happen.
Everything will stay the same.
Most people want to see something happen to them before they believe and take that action, but it doesn’t work that way.
You have to believe and take the action first, before it can happen to you.
Nobody can do it for you, only you can. When I touch both electric wires, something will happen to me… but only after I have touched it, not before.
Now here’s the other interesting part.
You are more likely to believe that something negative will happen to you, then you are to believe that something positive will happen to you.
Let me explain…
If you see someone else touch the wires and get electrocuted, you’ll easily believe and expect the same to happen to you. However if someone else applies the law of attraction and change his life, you’ll say it happened to him, but somehow doubt that it will happen to you. Author Alan Tutt, said something very powerful in his book “Keys to Prosperity”. He said that it is not really that you don’t have faith or that you have little faith. Rather he says, your faith is directed the wrong way.
Instead of expecting to succeed you expect to fail, which is the same as having faith in failure.
Whenever you say “what if”… or think of all the things that can go wrong, it is nothing other than your faith in failure talking.
But you can change all of that today…
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How to easily remember names, faces, numbers
March 27th, 2010Is your memory not as good as it should be?
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