What have you been thinking about yesterday and what are you thinking about today?
What is uppermost in your mind?
Is it the fact that you don’t know how you’ll pay your bills or how you’re going to survive?
Then that’s exactly what you’ll attract more of.
If you want to change your situation, you’ll have to change what you think about all day long.
Let’s face it, you probably made resolutions every new year and you never stuck with any of them. So why should this year be any different?
You see the problem is not with the resolutions or with the economy or anything else you may use as an excuse. The problem is you.
Unless you change something about you, nothing else that you’re trying to change will change. Here’s why.
If you try to change something on the outside without changing you, the way you unconsciously do things, you’ll find that soon all your resolutions will be forgotten and you’ll return to the way you are (your habits).
No matter how motivated you’re unless you change your habits which forms a part of who you are, nothing will change.
Habits can serve you well or they can pull you down. If you have tried to change on your own, come every new years and its just not working for you, then maybe its time you do something different.
Maybe its time you ask for help.
Help with motivation, help with accountability, help with focus.
Two is always better than one.
You can do so much more and get so much farther if you know that someone’s got your back.
There’s someone who can get you of the failed resolutions bandwagon for good.
How to Deal With Regrets
Do you ever have the feeling that you were meant to do something more?
That you aren’t living to your fullest potential?
Are you occasionally jealous of friends and colleagues who get ahead when you can’t?
Have you ever gone to sleep feeling stressed by the number of things on your to-do list… and awakened to the same feeling of anxiety?
When you look back at your life, do you regret any of the dreams you never chased?
If you answer yes to any of these questions, you are not alone.
These are the anxieties and concerns of intelligent people who expect more from life… and therefore more from themselves.
What happens with many could-be super successful people is that they try so hard to meet their many responsibilities that they never get to the things that will really improve their lives.
But, you can find out how to break free of this vicious cycle.
Everything Counts!
New Year’s is a unique holiday. It’s the only holiday that celebrates the passage of time. Perhaps that’s why, as the final seconds of the year tick away, we tend to become introspective.
Then we wonder: how did time get away from us? And why did all our hopes and dreams never materialize?
Inevitably, that introspection turns to thoughts of self-improvement and the annual ritual of making Resolutions.
We all do it. We swear to ourselves, “This is THE year” for transforming our lives and fulfilling our goals. We are determined to keep all the promises to lose weight, stop smoking, make more money, be more patient…just fill in the blanks.
Over the next few days millions of people from around the world will ask themselves questions as they figure out how to make 2010 the best year of their lives.
The following is a creative exercise for you to think about how to surpass your potential in the New Year.
In 2010, I’m finally going to __________________________!
How would YOU fill in that blank?
Go ahead, take a minute and give it your best shot… I’ll wait right here…
Now fast-forward to December 31st – New Years Eve, 2011. You’re reflecting on the past year, jotting down a few notes in your journal.
“I’ve got a lot to be thankful for this year…
I reduced my credit card debt by -_________________________.
I feel great and now fit into my __________________________.
I have increased my retirement fund by $___________________.
I have achieved a number of goals to include ______________.
I have exceeded my own expectations by ____________________.
I’ve got nearly enough money saved for a nice vacation in
______________________.
So, what did YOU write down? What are your aspirations for the coming year?
Are you ready to make 2010 the best year EVER?
Well, this doesn’t have to be just a fun little exercise. It can be something much better…
If the idea of erasing your debt, making more income, doing something good for those in your community or finally making lasting changes this year sounds good to you, then pay VERY close attention.
I’m going to tell you about something wonderful that IS the exact thing you’ll want to make your Resolutions stick! AND you’ll even get BONUSES!
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I’d like to show you how to dramatically increase the odds of making all your dreams -whatever they may be- come true in 2010.
The Got Resolutions Challenge is a personal leadership program that provides a step-by-step system for setting and achieving your New Year’s Resolutions.
When I saw this exciting program, I was so impressed by its content, delivery, and overall impact of both its message and first-class execution.
If focus, discipline, and accountability were among the things that prevented you from achieving your in the past, then “Got Resolutions?” is for YOU!
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Did you set some Goals and Resolutions last year?
Did you make promises to yourself, but soon discovered that none of your Resolutions were even met?
Right now you have the opportunity to create history rather than repeat it. How about actively fulfilling your Resolutions this year? How about surprising yourself by actually following through?
As you reflect on your future life, would you like to see yourself begin the year fast, focused, and positive? Are you going to keep ALL your promises to yourself?
ALL you have to do is say YES, I’m ready to turn my Resolutions into reality.
Are you ready for a thrilling, positive change in your life?
It’s easy to get started right away.
Happy New year
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Repeat after me:
I Hereby Resolve to Make 2010 the Best Year of my Life!
What if these words were part of a promise to yourself this holiday season? How about a promise to make 2010 your best year ever?
Suppose you decided today – right now – that you’re finally making a REAL commitment to turn your dreams into actions… your goals into achievements… AND your Resolutions into reality.
And suppose you had more fun doing it than you ever imagined!
It can happen… but you’ve got to take the first bold step.
Is 2010 going to be the year you accomplish all you’ve dreamed of…forever?
You can do it, and I’ve found a way that will show you how.
Gary Ryan Blair has done it again by creating another world-class program called The Got Resolutions Challenge!
This exciting program will be there to support and guide you so YOU can resolve to change your life for the better, and I mean MUCH BETTER!
You have an awesome opportunity to begin the year fast, focused, and full of hope. All you have to do is say YES, I’m ready to make this the best year of my life!
It’s easy to get started right away. Visit the Got Resolutions Challenge today and make your Resolutions a reality, once and for all!
Happy New Year!
Your friend
Jimmy Roos
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entire system. You’ll be glad you did!
I hope you had a wonderful Christmas.
We are on the brink of a new year and I just wanted to share this wonderful quote by Maryanne Williamson. Nelson Mandela used it during his inauguration as president of South Africa in 1994.
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear
is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that frightens us most. We ask ourselves, ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and famous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that people won’t feel insecure around you. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in all of us. And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
I hope this quote will inspire you to do and be all that you ever dreamed of.
It is possible. You just have to believe it and start doing it. One action at a time… one day at a time and you’ll make it.
It doesn’t matter if it takes 1 year, 2 years or 8 years. The most important thing is that you start.
I believed in miracles theoretically, but I never really had the courage to really trust God. So God took away all my means of sustenance (the things I depended on), so I could trust him.
On this particular weekend I went to the funeral of my granny’s sister, which was in a town about 500 kilometers away. I filled the car with gas but for some reason my vehicles’ consumption just went through the roof and I didn’t have enough money for the return drive. So I asked some of my relatives to pitch in, and they gave me some money.
I filled the car for the return drive, but I noticed that my fuel gauge was again descending rapidly and started worrying that I wasn’t going to make it home. So I started driving very slowly which annoyed some of the drivers behind me (we drive very fast on the highways).
Anyways I felt I had little choice and continued driving slowly, but this didn’t help much. When I was about 20 kms outside the city the yellow light came on which told me that my fuel tank was empty.
I decided that I wouldn’t stop and that the only way I was going to stop was when the car would stop by itself. By this time I already had a gospel CD of BeBe Winans in the car and played this loud and sang along loudly as I kept on driving.
The bottom line is that I drove all the way dropping off each of my relatives at their places and I drove back to my house on an empty tank of fuel. Since I didn’t have money in my bank I drove the car the next morning again without fuel. Took my kids to school, took my wife to work and went to work myself.
I dropped my kids of after school and drove back still on an empty tank of fuel. Later during the day we got some money, and I could finally fill up the car.
The total distance I drove on an empty tank was probably around 70 – 90 kms. If I hadn’t experienced it, I wouldn’t have believed it.
On that day I learned a very important lesson. Never stop believing and never give up, no matter how impossible the situation may seem. Miracles are still possible, but you got to believe and keep on going. Just like I kept on driving.
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There is a time and a season for failure and there is a time
and a season for your success. You may have come to that point
where you have given up on your dreams… you may have given
up on success, because of the many times you have failed.
However the truth is that there comes a time when the Universe
yields to you, and allows you to have whatever you want. But
that can only happen if you keep hope alive and you keep on
moving forward… dreaming and acting.
Every successful person today had their fair share of failure
and discouragement. However they pressed on in spite of that
and today they encourage us.
I too had those times when giving up seemed like an easier
option, but I chose to continue on because I knew it was just
a matter of time.
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I was sitting this morning and looking at a complimentary annual calender from the security company that guard our house.
The calender features beautiful birds from all over the world. I marvelled at the birds with their beautiful features and remembered this verse in the Bible: “Don’t worry about what you’ll eat and drink. Look at the flowers and the birds in the wild. They don’t worry about any of those things, yet your father in heaven provides for them
It continues “Now if God cares that much for flowers and birds that are here today and gone tomorrow, how much more will he care for
you?”
So, I encourage you. Stop worrying about what is not working or the “bad” things that might or might not happen. Instead, focus on what you want and make it happen.
All the best.
I want to share a wonderful quote from the great Jim Rohn who recently passed away. He said: “formal education will make you a living, but self education will make you a fortune”
So, I urge you to continue develop yourself. Learn as much as you can and apply it. Develop your talents, improve your body, love yourself more and I promise you. It will all be worth it, because YOU are the most important person in the world to you.
I love you and I appreciate you,