Archive for October, 2008

The Power of Love!

Wednesday, October 29th, 2008

As we go through life we encounter different people and based on our initial impression, we form certain assumptions about them. They say “first impressions count,” right?

Based on how things went the first time we met, I may start to think of John as a “lazy person” or of Sarah as “unreliable.” And what happens is that once that first impression is formed, we automatically start to expect this person to “be true” to that label of being “lazy” or “unreliable” and we are likely to get that behavior.

But what if we, in spite of that negative first impression, choose to expect something different. Maybe “expect” doesn’t go deep enough, and is perhaps not the right word, because I expected people to behave differently from the first impression I had of them, but I kept on getting the same behavior.

What if we choose to “see” this person differently and treat him differently. Would they still have the same old negative behavior or attitude that struck us the first time about this person?

The answer is no!

You see… the thing is this. The way we are often, is the way our parents and other people treated us during our childhood. Unfortunately we internalized those experiences and started to believe certain things about ourselves. Once we believed that about ourselves we started to act that way. Perhaps somebody said “I was lazy” or “I was useless and that I wasn’t going to amount to anything.”

The reality is that we believe that.

Now, unless somebody else chooses to look beyond the act I may put up, and choose to love me anyway, I may never change.

We have the power to change our experiences in life, not just in terms of the situations we encounter but also in how people realte to us, purely by choosing to hold thoughts and images of love and appreciation for everyone we meet.

But I guess you already knew that. Maybe its not that you don’t know it, maybe its just that you think it is too much effort, which usually means you don’t think the person is worthy of that effort. After all, every person is responsible for his own life, right?

Everyone is indeed responsible for his own life and you would be absolutely right in thinking that way, except. What if you’re that other peron who needs to be loved, understood and appreciated.

I know that for many years I may not have acted worthy of love and appreciation. However someone somewhere chose to “see” me differently. Someone, somewhere decided that I was worth understanding, appreciating and investing in.

It would then be safe to say that I am the person I am, because someone loved me enough that they chose to not look at me the way I was, but the way I can be.

The German philosopher, Johann Wolfgang von Goethe said:
“If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that”

We all have people around us, including our partners, spouses and children who may act in ways that we don’t approve of. And perhaps we tried to change them physically and gave up because it wasn’t working? Perhaps what we should do, is to see and treat them differently.

Maybe we should start thinking good and loving thoughts about them and visualize them as happy people who have found their purpose in life and who are loving and are loved by everyone. And when we start showering others with our love, we can’t help but basking in that same love as others start showering us with love.

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Why Struggling to Get Rich Doesn’t Work!

Tuesday, October 28th, 2008

The more folks struggle to make money, the further away from money they seem to get…

Think about what happens when you struggle – you are in a state of resistance. You resist the state of allowing. So what would happen if you were in a state of acceptance or allowing, and had a continual flow of money and riches in your life?

Doesn’t that sound better than struggling to get rich?

And the flow can be mastered. You have the ability to create an unending flow of riches into your life. It begins by creating a new relationship with money, and feeling gratitude for the financial riches and spiritual riches in your life. It doesn’t matter
what your current financial situation is, you need to feel gratitude for all that you truly have, so that you can attract and manifest more things in your life to feel gratitude for.

What Is Being Rich, Anyway?

Let’s talk for a moment about what it really means to be rich. Most people perceive wealth or riches as the ability to be financially secure.

However, true riches offer an even greater benefit than financial security. Imagine doing what you want, when you want, with whom you want, where you
want, for as long as you want, without ever having to answer to anyone…A person who is truly rich knows they are truly rich when they have achieved the
most valuable asset of all: PERSONAL FREEDOM!

Let me ask you a question. How would you know if you were “rich?”

That may seem like a stupid question. You would probably reply, “I would know if I was rich if I had no bills, or I had a lot of money in the bank, or had
income producing investments or business, or I could buy whatever I want without having to go into debt.” If you gave any of the above answers you
would be partially correct. This is how I define true wealth – having the complete freedom to live life on my own terms.

When I did not understand the principle of personal freedom, I focused on money. I wanted money, and I wanted lots of it! That was my goal. And because we get what we focus on, I attracted more money. But then one day I realized that what I really wanted was the freedom to live life on my
terms.

First, it’s important to know when people see how I live and conduct my business, they often say that, “It’s easy for you, you earn a lot of money, you’re famous, you’ve got a huge demand for your books, training programs, etc.” But they miss the point. I purposely designed my life this way when I had no
money. This was my dream. This was my intention.

Living this way is the basis of what I teach in my books, audio programs, seminars and personal counseling. What you get in life is determined by what you focus on and the actions you take. In other words, you get the outcome of personal freedom by focusing on it and practicing it. It is both the cause and the effect or the outcome.

I choose freedom to do what I like, when I like, where I like, with whom I like in both my personal life and in my business. For example, I do not carry a mobile phone with me unless I am traveling. When I am at home, which is ninety percent of the time, I don’t carry one with me. My reasoning is that I am just not that important that I must annoy everyone who comes into contact with me by constantly and incessantly talking on the phone. If you feel you have to carry a mobile phone with you everywhere and answer every call, you are not free – you are a prisoner.

In addition to not carrying a mobile phone with me, I do not take any unscheduled phone calls. Even my personal coaching clients who pay me tens of thousands of dollars must make advance appointments to talk with me on the phone – and those calls are kept to a minimum because I prefer getting emails. As a result, today, I work only with people I enjoy working with. No exceptions. If I have a troublesome client, I fire them!

I live pretty much as I choose. If I want to take a day off to go out to the races, watch the horses run and have a bet, I do. If I want to travel anywhere, I do. If I want to be with someone, dine anywhere or go when I want, whenever I want, I do.

My peace of mind and my freedom to live my life on my terms is why I am truly rich. Yet, I want to quickly emphasize, this has nothing to do with the amount of money I earn. This just helps to support my lifestyle of freedom. But here is the point: I created this at a time when I could not afford it. I didn’t wait until I had to money to do it. It was my core desire. I believe anyone can live this way of they choose.

People tell me that because of their circumstances it is not possible for them to do this. I tell them “horse pucky.” You can do anything you want if you set your intention and follow through. This is true wealth. You can have it your way regardless of what you do for a living, regardless of the business you’re in, where you live, your current income, wealth or lack thereof, regardless of any variable you can possibly name.

If you will deliberately get in alignment with creating freedom, you can have it! When you are in alignment spiritually, mentally, emotionally, strategically and behaviorally with a lifestyle of personal freedom, you can enjoy the results of your wealth. This is the position you want to get into, as quickly as possible.

If you want a lifestyle of total personal freedom, now, then begin developing a Rich Mind Life Strategy. I developed my personal development program to help folks tap into their greatest source of creativity, inspiration and personal power.

The Rich Mind Life Strategy is a way for you to stop struggling…

With the Rich Mind Life Strategy Essentials program, finally you can say goodbye forever to the “struggle-for-money” mindset… and discover how to create a continual flow of money and riches in your life without a constant and never ending struggle…

The truth is… there IS a “blueprint” or “life strategy” that is common to all successful people who have discovered how to master the flow…

The “Rich Mind Life Strategy” is a dynamic approach for attracting an unstoppable FLOW of riches into your life by replacing the things that don’t work with things that do work and staying that way for the rest of your life…
You can learn more about the program at:

The Rich Mind Life Strategy

Dr. Robert Anthony, the acknowledged inspiration behind The Secret has spent the last 30 years unraveling the mysteries of “success” and how the mind holds the ultimate key to peak personal performance in all areas.

In addition to being a Personal Performance Trainer, he have been licensed as a Psychotherapist, is currently licensed as a Hypnotist and is a best-selling author of over 15 books, which have been published in 22 countries. Including his best-selling The Ultimate Secrets of Total Self-Confidence and Beyond Positive Thinking.
Dr. Anthony has appeared on ABC, CBS and NBC television, and his client list includes Federal Express, Mary Kay, Proctor and Gamble, and many Fortune 500 companies.

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Its incredible

Friday, October 24th, 2008

I can’t remember I time when everything worked so perfectly. Whatever I want I’m getting without struggle. Its just effortless manifestation.This is what I always wanted but I didn’t know how to get to that place. Now I know. But you probably want to know what am I doing, right?Ok, what I’m doing is I’m focussing on what my future life and I say yes to whatever comes into my life and somehow the whole Universe seem to work together for me. Its incredible. Even things that I want but that I may not be consciously thinking about just come together. But I didn’t just get to that place just by accident. There were some videos that I watched and some things I experimented with.I will reveal everything, including the exact blueprint that I use when I launch my new manifesting guide and mebership site soon. I can tell you though that the videos are on Youtube but with thousands of videos on Youtube you won’t know which ones I use.But when you stay subscribed to my newsletter you will get it all when it becomes available.Thats all for me now.  See you soon.

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I have been busy

Wednesday, October 22nd, 2008

I have been rather quiet lately and have not posted as much as I normally do. The reason being that I have been working on my latest project which is an ebook and a membership site.When it is ready I will post the details here and you can have a look. The price will be very low when I launch it the site and ebook because  I want people to give me testimonials. Once I have gotten enough testimonials to prove that it is a good product then I will likely raise the price.So if you want to get the snoop on what a think is a great manifestation tool, then watch this space. Or better subscribe to my newsletter if you haven’t already.But right now I have teamed up with a very successful internet marketer and Law of Attraction coach to give you a 25% discount on his 6 month Law of Attraction Course. The discount is only available for the next 6 days so if you don’t want to miss what I think is a great deal then follow this link and use the promo code “jimmy”If by the time you get this the promo code box is no longer there or the promo code doesn’t work, then I guess you’re too late. Here is the website addresshttp://how-to-manifest-your-desires.com/180days 

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How to Tap Into Your Intuition

Thursday, October 16th, 2008

Intuition is the small voice inside you. It’s the small voice that tells you the truth about the way things really are.

Why bother listening to it? Why is that small voice inside so important in your life?

If you ignore it or are not consciously using your intuition, you will be making decisions according to your linear mind. Your linear mind sees things in a straight line. It sees things in logical, rational terms of a to b to c and so on.

Your intuitive perspective sees things from a much more expanded viewpoint. It is a view that encompasses everything that your senses are picking up on and tuning into. You get messages from all directions.

How do you listen to your intuition?

Intuition works hand in hand with your senses. You cannot access your intuition just through your head. It’s a whole body thing.

The first thing is to get out of your head and down into your belly. That’s where you have gut feelings. Gut feelings tell you when intuitions are trying to get through to you.

You need to train yourself to be quiet so that you can get away from all that over thinking and analysing, which is exhausting for you. When you are quiet and relaxed you can hear what your intuition is telling you. You do this through relaxation and meditation practices.

You can also start to take notice to your dreams at night. Ask yourself questions before you go to bed. Get used to writing down things that come to you in your dreams.

Breathe and Ask

Practise breathing yourself down into a quiet place in your belly. Then you can ask for guidance from all those cosmic friends we call spirit guides or angels. You can learn to breathe and ask.

Through practice you train yourself to listen to your intuition. You gain confidence to trust your intuition. You can call yourself an intuitive person.

Remember that you are not just a head walking around thinking and analysing. This makes you very tired and weary. You have an intuitive sense, a deep inner knowing in your gut. This knowledge comes easily without effort.

Breathing is fundamental to becoming intuitive. Your breath is how you can most easily get out of your head, out of those maddening cycles of thought that can drive you crazy and rob you of sleep. Your breath is the easiest way to take you awareness from your head down to your belly.

Start tuning in now.

You learn to start tuning into different channels of awareness that contain expanded perspectives. You access more creative knowledge than you ever thought possible. You will be amazed at how you see things differently. You’ll wonder at how you can see a different path through issues that seemed impossible to resolve or manage.

Start now on the path to becoming more intuitive. You will find your intuition is a trustworthy friend. This friend never forsakes you. Trusting your intuition is trusting yourself.

Gaye Wright is an international psychic and leading authority on the psychic arts. Gaye is available for live psychic phone readings and you can visit her website to find out more about her special psychic and clairvoyant gifts.

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Don’t be angry with the people in your life

Thursday, October 9th, 2008

All of us have experience of this. The people in our lives who are like a thorn in our flesh. It is as if they simply dislike us for no reason at all, and many a time we wish that we could just make them disappear.

It could be someone like our former boss who fired us for no good reason. Or that other person who did something that really hurt us and who we are just unable to forgive.  Every time you think about what that person did, you get all angry.

 It is because of them that our lives are the way it is, we say.

 The thing is this. Blaming other people for our lives, no matter what they did will not take us forward. Rather it keeps us where we are, or it takes us back into the past.

Our dreams and desires for the future will only remain that. A dream for the future, until we realize that we need to forgive those people and move on. Fact is, we actually attracted those people into our lives and the reason we attracted them into our lives is because we needed them at a period in time.

The people who are in our lives and whom we hate or resent are there because there is something in us that needs to change or there is a situation that we need to change or get out of.

For example, if you are in a job where you are having problems with your boss it may mean that there is a better job out there for you. The difficulties you experience will cause you to start looking for another job or even to consider starting your own business. If you had no problems you would be comfortable where you are and would make no effort towards something better.

Or you may be in relationship with someone who doesn’t appreciate you and abuse you and you may resent this person who abuse you. However that person may actually be doing you a favor. because if he didn’t abuse you, you wouldn’t leave and eventually start your own business or do something else that you were meant to do.

 Many people lost jobs or were kicked out by their spouses. At the time they may have felt that life is unfair, but now after the passage of time they’ll all welcome what happened to them. Hindsight is a wonderful thing because it allows you to see the full picture and not just the limited piture you saw before.

On Saturday October 05, 2008 renowned film maker Tyler Perry unveiled a new multimillion-dollar TV and film studio on 30 acres in southwest Atlanta.

According to Perry, he once considered leaving Atlanta for good after neighbors complained about noise and traffic at his old studio in a neighborhood close to downtown.

“Even though the studio was there for 15 years, there was a lot of resistance in everything I was doing,” Perry said in a telephone interview with The Associated Press earlier in the week. “I was thinking about leaving at one point, but this is home for me.”

His new Tyler Perry Studios contains more than 200,000 square feet of studio and office space in an area that once housed Delta Air Lines’ finance, reservation and computer center. It was vacant when Perry found it.

Perry said he knew the new location would be an improvement. His old building was on property zoned commercial, but the street next to it is residential.

“I knew spiritually I was in the wrong place,” said Perry, whose projects include “Tyler Perry’s the Family That Preys.”

“You can never be upset with the people who forced you into your dream or up higher,” he said. “They forced me out into a higher situation. It’s worked out much better for me.”

But one doesn’t have to wait for hindsight to see the big picture. You can learn to trust in a higher power, knowing that it will never lead you to a place that you don’t want to be. It will always take you to your heart’s desire.

And in time, hindsight will confirm what you knew all along.

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Are we perhaps focussing on the wrong things?

Sunday, October 5th, 2008

The law of attraction states that what we focus on expands and we get more of it. Period. It doesn’t matter whether it is right or wrong or good or bad. If you focus on it you’ll attract it.

So many of us say we want something different from what we have, however as long as we keep on focussing on things other than those things we say we want, we will never manifest our desires.

A few days ago I found a great website, actually 2 websites that allow you to download Youtube videos for free.

Why do I think this is great? Because Youtube is a treasure chest of resources for anyone who wants to master the law of attraction and manifest their desires. If you watch the videos online, you would normally have to wait a while for the video to load, especially if you have a slow connection.

However, these websites allow you to download the videos to your computer, so you can watch your favorite videos including those that show you how to do EFT over and over on your PC and improve your life.

So when I found these websites I picked the one whose download link takes a little longer to expire (this comes in handily if you have a slower connection). Great was my surprise then when one of my subscribers emailed me back and suggested that I sent her to an x-rated page and that she was not interested.

For a moment I felt guilty that I might have send my subscribers to an x-rated page. I then clicked on the link to go see what she was talking about. And what I found was an advertisement at the bottom displaying a scantily clad woman. As long as you don’t scroll down you’ll only see the head of the woman.

When I looked at this page the first time I barely even noticed this picture and service, because I was clear on what I wanted and I was focussed on it. Hence whatever else was there barely registered in my mind. As far as I was concerned I found a great tool that allows me to bring me closer to my dreams.

The point I’m trying to make here is. Your life will never change as long as you allow yourself to be distracted by everything that happens in your experience. The only way you’ll change your life is by,

    1) knowing what you want (identify what you want),

    2) focussing on what you want

    3) doing whatever it takes to make it happen.

So if you have been trying to manifest your desires for a while, but seem to be stuck then look closely at where your attention is. Most likely you’ll find that it is on the things you are experiencing in your life right now.

Also check out this post Allowing your good to come to you as it is closely related to this post.

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Allowing your good to come to you

Friday, October 3rd, 2008

I struggled to really get this for many long years even while knowing and teaching about the law of attraction. Because you need to get the law of attraction on a cellular level, and not just an intellectual level, to really make it work for you on a consistent basis. What I mean by this is, you need to understand it on a deeper level of knowing and this doesn’t happen overnight. This is at least my experience, although others may get it sooner.

Allowing your good to come to you is probably the hardest thing for most people in the law of attraction. How do you allow your good to come to you? When you allow “What Is” by loving and accepting it. Allowing what is, is also the central theme of author Echard Tolle’s teachings as well as the teachings of Abraham through Esther Hicks.

What do I mean when I say “allow what is?”

You allow life to unfold around you and within and through you without it causing any negative emotion within you. This is hard to do when we learn from a very young age about what is supposedly right and what is wrong and what is beautiful and what is ugly and to have an opinion about it.

So we go through life judging people and situations in terms of what is acceptable and what is not. However it is this very judging that trips us up as far as the law of attraction is concerned. The law of attraction doesn’t care about what is wrong or right or what is beautiful or not. It is only concerned with how you feel. And since you have very strong feelings about certain things, you find yourself reacting to them, sometimes without realizing it.

But what does this do for your dreams and desires? They most likely go unfulfilled, because you can visualize and affirm all you like, but if you wouldn’t or are unable to allow others to live their lives the way they see fit, you automatically sabotage your own success.

 

Is there something you can do about this? Stop judging people and situations and learn to let go. Say yes, to whatever is coming into your experience and trust that it is for your good, even those things you don’t like. Especially those things and people you don’t like.

This is the key to making the law of attraction work for you on a consistent basis.

Why is this so powerful? Because you attract what you focus on and when you resist something you obviously resist it with every part of your being.

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