Archive for April, 2008

Why You Need to Become a Leader!

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008

Wherever you look in this world, you’ll find two kinds of people. You find leaders, who are few and far in between, and then there are the followers who make up the vast majority of people in the world.

Leaders usually know where they are going, but the followers don’t, because they are following. Now, I know that there is a debate about whether one is born a leader or whether one becomes one. I have a unique take on that.

I believe that everyone of us is born with the ability to become a leader, but whether one becomes a leader or not depends on what one chooses later in life.

Let me use an analogy to illustrate. We all agree that all woman are born with the ability to give birth and become a mother, but not everyone will become one. The same goes for being a father. Every male is born with the ability to become a father but not everyone will choose to become one.

What is the difference between a leader and a follower? A leader is someone who finds and goes his own way. A follower is someone who doesn’t find his own way, but instead follows others.

To lead is to take responsibility. Firstly for yourself, your life (past and future), including your failures and mistakes. Secondly for those whose lives have been entrusted to you such as your family and others who crossed your paths.

A leader is not necessarily someone who is heading a big organization. Leaders can be found everywhere. You can be a leader in your home, your job, your church and your community.

Followers on the other hand, don’t want to take responsibility. They are quick to criticize and find fault with almost everything. If they are not happy with the one organization or job they simply go somewhere else. They don’t want to take any responsibility for anything.

What do you need to become a leader? You need courage, belief in yourself and your abilities and the knowledge that you can make a difference.

What are you? A leader or a follower? Are you who or what you want to be in life? If yes, then well done.

However, if not, what are you doing about it. Followers accept their situations and blame others. Leaders don’t just accept their situations, they do something about it.

It is never too late to choose to become a leader.

Fact is: If you are not leading you are following someone else. And since the person leading you has his own agenda, you have no control over where he may lead you. The only way you can change where you go and how you get there is when you take control. By doing that, you have in essence become a leader.

 Here are a few more reality checks:

  • You can never become rich following someone else;
  • You can never become happy following someone else;
  • You can never be the person you were meant to be, following someone else;

All of these are only possible, the moment you make a decision for yourself that from now on you’ll follow your own counsel.

This May Be Why Your Desires Are Not Manifesting!

Friday, April 25th, 2008

While you are waiting for your desires to manifest there may be other people who are getting the things they want. How do you feel when you see this happen? Are you happy for them or are you thinking ”why is it happening for them and not for me?”

Being envious of people with money or not being happy for someone who is doing well is a sure way to push away something good from coming to you. Many people have a problem with this issue, but the interesting thing is that they don’t even realize it.

If you have a problem in this area, then address it. Because  I can guarantee that you will struggle to attract any meaningful amount of money to you, if you don’t. Other equally damaging things may be having beliefs that rich people are stingy or selfish.

Create more positive beliefs in your life and allow others to be rich just as you want to be. When you do this you’ll find that it becomes easier to attract money.

How to Move from Depression to Joy

Tuesday, April 22nd, 2008

One thing that we all experience from time to time is feeling down, usually because of things that are going wrong in our lives. I have them from time to time and I also felt like that the other day.

So how do you move from being down and feeling so bad to feeling joyful. Quite frankly you can’t go from feeling really bad to feeling really good. You have to take it, little bits at a time. When you are feeling bad ask yourself, what is the next best feeling or what feels better than this, and follow that feeling.

If you cannot think of a feeling, ask yourself. What can I do that will make me feel a little better, and once you know the answer do that thing. If you cannot think of something that will make you feel good, ask yourself. What can I do that will not make me feel worse than I am right now.

 I can guarantee you that you will at least find something that will not make you feel worse. And when you do that, you’ll find other feelings that will come to make you feel even better.

Why is it important to feel good? When we feel good the law of attraction works for us and brings us the things we want. On the other hand, if we feel down, the same law of attraction brings us things we don’t like.

So if you can choose, which would you choose? I know I’ll always choose feeling good. And when those times come when I feel a little down like the other day, than I just choose the feeling that is a little better than the one I’m feeling.

Works for me every time and will work for you too.

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You are right, no matter what you believe!

Monday, April 21st, 2008

The other day I was looking at a number of products and comparing them with the view to purchase. One of the things I was looking for to base my decision on, were testimonials of people who had purchased and used the product before.

This one product had a lot of testimonials while the other didn’t. This in itself would for most people mean that the product with the testimonials is better. However, there is something else to consider here.

The testimonials on that page may not be real. And even if they were genuine, it doesn’t mean you’re also going to achieve success with that system or product, just because somebody else did. In case you’re wondering why. Everything in life, even products or systems depend on the person using it. That is why you always have disclaimers at the bottom of a salespage that says, “we cannot guarantee that you”ll achieve the same results.”

If your mindset is negative for example, and you’re thinking “I paid so much for this machine, so it better work or I’ll return it.” Then the chances are that machine will not make you lose weight or build your muscles.

Does it mean that the product or system doesn’t work? No, it just means that you didn’t make it work for you.

You see, one thing you must realize is this: YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT! Whether you say you can do something or whether you say you cannot do it, you attract what you expect.

And so, the law of attraction will help you prove yourself right every time. That is why it is important to believe in yourself, to believe in what you do…

To believe that you will succeed even if others have failed before doing the very same thing you want to do.

When Jesus was on earth, all the people he healed were surrounded by many other sick people. Yet only some received their healing. Why is this?

Because those who were healed had something that attracted their healing to them.

You just have to look at people who go to the gym to lose weight or to put on muscle. Why is it that only 50% reach their goals and the rest don’t.

It is the same with people who are trying to become rich. Less than 50% of those who set out intially on their journey towards financial freedom eventually become rich. Many times you’ll find that individuals used the same systems and products, yet they would get different outcomes.

What is the reason for this discrepancy? Your mindset determines what you get and you attract what you expect. Do you want to change what you have been receiving?

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Is The Law of Attraction Enough To Manifest Your Dreams and Desires?

Friday, April 18th, 2008

Is the law of attraction alone enough to manifest your dreams and desires? In other words, is it enough to just visualize and affirm the life that you want and then it will just materialize like magic?

Many people who are new to the law of attraction and manifesting wonder about this. Is there something else that they should do; what should they do, and just how much of this should they do?

In order to answer this question and sub questions, let me say this.

What the law of attraction does is that instead of just giving you everything you want in your lap like a fully cooked meal,

It will give you ideas, which if followed will lead you to the things you want such as more money, or a relationship, etc.

It will also bring people in your life that will support you and who may even give you further ideas,

It will create the right circumstances, to allow you to easily get the things you want.

However the bottom line is that you’ll have to do something to finally materialize the things you want, although you may also win the lottery or somebody might bequeath you a big inheritance. But even then you’ll have to something, even if it is just to call the lottery office and claim your winnings or to sign the papers for your inheritance money.

There are no hard and fast rules as to what you should do or not do and how you should do it. The most important thing is to listen to the guidance of your higher self or subconscious. This is the entity that is connected to all knowledge.

It will tell you what you should do, when you should do it, how you should it, or if all you should be doing anything at all. Many people have achieved great miracles and breakthroughs just by being relaxed and happy.

The Law of Attrraction vs Personal Responsibility

Wednesday, April 16th, 2008

What is the law of attraction? The law of attraction states that “you attract unto yourself that which is like it-self” and is based on the notion that we are all one whole and that everything is made up of energy.

This includes all things that are seen or unseen, as well as those things that appear fixed as well as those that are moving.

Because we are all one whole, everything that one person does will and do affect someone else. How does this work?

Our beliefs, thoughts and visualizations have a certain charge or polarity, which can be either positive or negative. Depending on the charge of your vibrations you attract people and or circumstances into your life that match your polarity and vibration.

But what about the question of personal responsibility?

If everything that someone else does affects me in one way or another, where does personal responsibility
fit in?

Let’s first look at what personal responsibility is.
Personal responsibility is to be accountable or
responsible for your actions.

The following questions will further dig into this seeming contradiction.

* If something bad happens to me, did I attract it or is the perpetrator of the crime to blame?

* What about Cesar Laurean who killed his fellow pregnant marine and fled to Mexico?

* What about the mother who killed her children?

* What about the father who wiped out his family?

Are these bad people?

No!

All of us have the potential and are capable of doing anything, including committing murder. However all of us also have the potential and are capable of doing the greatest good and becoming the best we can possibly be.

But for either of these to happen we get to choose:

* Positive or negative,

* Love or hate,

* Joy or anger!

Remember, for something bad to be attracted to you, you have to first become a match to someone who wants to harm you.

For example, if you believe that the world is bad and there are people out there who are out to harm you, you become a match for someone out there with bad intentions. Whether you will indeed attract something bad to you depends on the degree to which this is a match to you.

Feelings and emotions such as:

* Fear
* Anger
* Guilt
* Worry
* Resentment
* Envy
* Hate
* Un-forgiveness

These are all lower level feelings and emotions which will attract other conditions that are similar to it-self.

However if we consciously choose feelings such as the feelings and emotions below:

* Joy
* Optimism
* Love
* Forgiveness
* Patience
* Gratitude
* Confidence

We will insure that we only attract the things that are a match for our vibration.

The law of attraction has always worked and will continue to work, but it does not take away the question of personal responsibility. We are still responsible, but more than just being responsible for our actions we are more importantly, also responsible for our thoughts and our emotions.

We may have no control over the vibrations and actions of others, but we certainly have control over our actions and thoughts and beliefs. By choosing only thoughts and emotions that uplift us as well as others, we can insure that we will be least affected by what others do.

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This is why you’re a winner!

Monday, April 14th, 2008

How are you today – I have something very important to tell you.

What I want to tell you is this: You Are A Winner!

How do I know this if I never even met you?

Here is why – Before you were conceived in your mother’s womb you were actually competing with millions of other sperm cells to fertilize the egg from your mother.

And you know what?

You beat them all out to emerge victorius.

Now, tell me how amazing is that?

So, that is how I know that you’re a winner.

 Most of us are never told that we are winners. We are always told negative things about ourselves that we later tend to believe. And because we believe these negative stuff about ourselves we find it hard to break through and manifest our desires.

But you don’t have to subscribe to somebody else’s warped view of you.

 You can change that because you’re a winner.

You were born to succeed. If you weren’t a winner you wouldn’t be here today!

And as long as you don’t give up, you will also manifest everything you ever wanted!

When you start to believe in yourself then others will also believe in you, so just keep on believing…

Keep on going…

Keep on learning…

Keep on applying what you learn, and you’ll get there!

That is all I wanted to tell you today!

Your friend,

Jimmy Roos

Release Your Gifts to the World

Friday, April 11th, 2008

Every person on this earth has a special gift. The gifts may not all be equal but they are all special. What is your gift?

It may be singing, acting or craftsmanship. Or you may have an eye for detail, allowing you to turn an ordinary space into a wonderful haven, where people would want to spend their time.

It’s never too late to make a change and find a path that will allow you to be true to yourself. You just need to recognize your gift and take it out from where it is hidden.

The time has come for you to let your light shine and to do what you truly enjoy. Do it for yourself and for nobody else. But when you do, your light might just lighten up somebody else’s way.

Before I started my business I thought I had no special talent and that I therefore had nothing worthwhile to offer. I know that many of you are at that place right now. I want to encourage and tell you that you have got something. What it is I don’t know, only you do. But I know this, it is something special.

Not sharing it with the world will be doing a great disservice to yourself and to the entire world. Nothing is appreciated until it is released for all to see, hear and treasure.

Imagine a world without a Mariah Carey, Michael Jackson, Bill Gates or a Picasso. It’s almost like imagining a world without music or computers as we know them. By sharing their talent with us, these individuals have certainly made our world a better place.

There are others you can think of, who have appeared seemingly out of nowhere, and have redefined our worlds. They have changed the way we eat drink and relax, even the way we do business. But before they took that step to show us what they had, nobody had even an inkling as to what was coming.

What about you. Who knows how you could change our world. You could be the next big thing, but even if you don’t change the world like Bill Gates, you could still change your world, in a million ways. And ultimately that’s the most important part. Changing your world.

If you don’t do something about it you’ll never know, what you’re capable of. You’ll never know how it could have been. By taking that first step you’re making a declaration of your independence.

What caused me to take that first step? I was sick and tired of living for weekends. I was tired of working for a living, of always not having enough money. I got tired of getting up in the morning and going to work even if I didn’t feel it. I was tired of being told what to do and how to do it. I wanted my freedom and independence.

I realized that there are so may people all over the world who need someone to tell them that they can achieve their dreams, just as I needed someone to tell me that.

I knew that when I made it I would inspire so many others who thought they couldn’t make it. When you make your dreams come true it may be only for yourself, but there are hundreds and maybe thousands who’ll be inspired. Especially in your own community.

They’ll say if so and so could do it, I can do it too. People are not as much influenced by people from afar as they are by those close to them. Your success becomes their success.

So go out there and follow your dreams. Don’t be afraid to become the first in your community. Take it little by little, day by day, step by step. As you accomplish the one step the next step will come into view, and will be that much more manageable.

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How to Use Your Desire to Manifest Your Dreams

Monday, April 7th, 2008

What is it that makes one man go where others don’t dare tread? And that keeps him going even when the odds seem so insurmountable? When others around him expect the worst, and obstacle upon obstacle, cause him to wonder if perhaps, just perhaps, everybody might be right and he may be crazy?

That my friend is what is called DESIRE! Desire is one of the strongest emotions, and one of the greatest forces man has ever known. When harnessed properly it will give you everything you have ever wanted! Desire is the fuel for success.

Just as a car or any other automobile needs fuel to keep going, a man’s desire is what drives him and will ultimately determine if he will hold that prize at the end of the race. The thing that determines why the one person Does and the other Doesn’t is not physical ability or the lack thereof, but desire and or the absence thereof.

It is said where there is a will there is a way, but what isn’t said is that the will doesn’t exist by itself and of itself. It is fuelled by desire. If you have lost your desire for whatever it is you want, you have Lost the Race.

Desire Doesn’t Reason or Justify.

All it wants is satisfaction. It is not concerned with how you bring it about.

Desire, like most things is not something you are born with. It is a force and power which can be induced through the senses such as sight, hearing and smell. Let me give you an example.

When you see a beautiful woman or man, it does something to you. It triggers a power or force that will either die a natural death, or will become a raging fire.

That depends on what you do with it from that point onwards. Now, I used the example of being attracted to either a men or women, but desire is not limited to that. You can desire a big house, a car or desire to travel the world. However this will not mean much, until you crystallize this desire into something tangible, something you can see, hear, smell or touch.

So, to induce desire for whatever it is you want, you have to introduce the object of your desire, to your senses. The more you see something, the stronger your desire for that thing will become.

Lets take the example of a beautiful woman or man again. If he or she has made enough of an impression on you, you would want to see that person again, right? But if you leave it to chance you may or may not see him or her again. In the event you don’t, the feelings will likely die a natural death.

But let’s say, you see that person again and again, what do you think will happen? That’s right! The feelings you have will become stronger.

So what you need to do is to introduce the object of your desire to your senses, not once or twice but again and again and again.

If you can, physically touch and smell and experience the object of your desire. If you desire wealth, go to the places that are symbols of wealth and get the feeling of wealth.

This can be places like expensive restaurants or five-star hotels. If you can afford it, book a room or a suite, even if it’s just for one night.

If you don’t have a lot of cash just go there and book a table. Order a cup of coffee or something else which isn’t too expensive. I’m sure you get the picture. Do this over and over and you’ll find that your Desire gets stronger and stronger.

You can apply this to anything and you will find that your desire burns stronger than ever.

If you know someone who is wealthy, approach the person and offer to assist with anything, free of charge. Most people will appreciate this gesture. Some might even take you along to places they go and may even introduce you to their circle of friends.

Alternatively go to a Dealership that sells expensive cars and just sit in one of the cars in the show room. Experience the feeling of wealth. Touch the expensive leather and wood, smell it. You can do this as often as you like. The more you do it the higher your desire will be. Do all this in addition to your other efforts to accomplish your goal.

If you cannot physically go to the places I’ve mentioned, you can get these places and objects to come to you. Looking at pictures is another good way to increase your desire and it doesn’t cost you anything, other than a little effort.

You see, your subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between a real and imagined experience. It will accept whatever is imprinted upon it, and will start attracting that condition in terms of the people and circumstances that you need to satisfy Your Desire!

There are thousands of magazines that have pictures of the object you desire. Here’s what I have done and what you can do too.

Cut out some pictures that vividly depict the thing you want and paste it all over your room or office. Position some of the pictures in such a way that it is the first thing you see when you wake up or come into that room, and the last thing you see when you leave or fall asleep.

Here is a final thought. Desire alone will not accomplish your your goals for you, it is just the Fuel. Imagine a car with fuel but no engine. Or a car that has fuel and an engine but no wheels. It won’t go anywhere. The same goes for someone who only has desire.

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How To Become A Winner!

Thursday, April 3rd, 2008

Love him or hate him, but you cannot ignore him, much less deny that he is a winner. From Mr. Olympia and Mr. Universe to Hollywood blockbuster movie hero to governor of California, Arnold Swarzenegger has confounded his critics and his detractors.

Even when the allegations of sexual impropriety came, as they always seem to do in politics, he didn’t slow down. He admitted it and kept going.

He didn’t allow this or any other thing to distract him. He kept focussing on the task at hand, which was to become the governor of California.

How many times were you focussed on something, when somebody came with an allegation or revealed something you may or may not have done in the past. And when that thing came it blew you off-course and cause you to lose your momentum.

On your journey to success there will always be distractions. There will always be critics and detractors, but you cannot allow them to derail your plans and lose your focus because of them.

When these things come, don’t try and run from them. Confront them and deal with them like Arnold did. If it’s true admit it and move on, don’t try and deny it, because it won’t stop.

I don’t know if you noticed, but while his opponents and the media were specualting about the impact of the allegations on his campaign, Arnold ws already celebrating. As far as he was concerned, he was already the governor of California.

There are all kinds of analysts and political commentators who are speculating about why Arnold won. The explanations are endless and range from his celebrity status to his wealth.

I don’t know about any of that. What I know is that Arnold Swarzenegger knows how to win.

He has proven it many times before. Long before he saw the bright lights of Hollywood, he set his sights on became a champion bodybuilder, and even the Austrian winter could not distract him as he trained outside in near freezing temperatures.

Arnold Swarzenegger knows that success starts as a state of mind and that what you observe with your eyes physically is not reality, but a mere manifestation of the reality you have already created in your mind.

When he appeared at Mr. Olympia Arnold walked like a champion long before he was crowned. He seized the moment.

While the other contestants were thinking about the judges and what they should do to impress the judges, Arnold already had visions of the judges declaring him as the winner.

After becoming Mr. Olympia, Arnold Swarzenegger set his sights on conquering Hollywood. Again there were detractors who were giving him many reasons why he will not succeed, one of which was that his heavy Austrian accent would be a stumbling block. As we all know today, it wasn’t. He made it in spite of his accent.

The lesson in all of this is. Don’t let anyone tell you you can do this or you cannot do that. Learn form Arnold Swarzenegger, whether you like him or agree with his views or not.

See how he has seized the most important moments in his life and seize the moment for yourself, no matter what your goals are.

Stop listening to the speculation of the media and gain the attitude of a winner, and you will soon start to win as Arnold Swarzenegger has done his whole life, often against the odds.

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