Manifestation, Law of Attraction

How secure you feel is largely determined by how secure or insecure you feel as a person. If you are a generally insecure person you are likely to be frightened by every little disturbance that happens around you or by not having money. The world is trying to tell us that what we feel inside is separate from “reality”, i.e. the things that happen around us on the physical plane. According to this thinking, the source of your anxiety or insecurity is outside; hence people who feel insecure are trying to fix the problem on the outside.Going with this argument, people do all kinds of things to improve their security. Many people want more money, because they believe this will lead to more security. However this is not necessarily true.This may be fine if the source of your insecurity is outside, for example if you have received threats or if the area where you live is dangerous. In that case more money will help you to improve your present security or move to a safer area.But what if your insecurity comes from within? How can you fix it outside? I know what I’m talking about. I suffered rejection while being raised by my Aunt, which projected itself as insecurity in my later life.My insecurities and fears were very real and were compounded by the fact that we had little money. My wife and I often had blazing rows because of the fact that she bought stuff, sometimes even things that we needed. As far as I was concerned we shouldn’t have bought anything until we had “enough” money. I thought at the time that having more money would solve the problem, because I didn’t realize the problem was inside me.The truth is that money doesn’t necessarily give security. If you feel insecure, clearly examine what you feel insecure about. Is there a clear physical threat to your security, for example, someone threatened you personally? If you cannot really pinpoint where your security comes from, it is likely that it is from within.So if you are having anxiety relating to money, reason with your mind in a logical manner.

• Ask yourself who has died from not having money.
• Ask yourself what is the worst thing that can happen to you if you don’t have money. Try to paint the most ridiculous possible outcomes.

When you do this you confuse your mind.

• Remind yourself that there are people who are worse off than you, but they haven’t died.

Also do this. I’m sure there are many homeless people on the streets. In the morning talk to yourself and say:

• This morning I’m going to prove that I’m overcoming this fear. Stop next to some homeless people and give them some money, or something which they don’t have.
• Also ask them if not having money have killed them. When they say no, walk away and tell your subconscious, you see I told you that nobody has ever died of not having money.

You’ll find you will not believe these things you say to yourself, but don’t worry about that. The mind is a creature of habit and it will take a while before things start to change.

The key to establishing new behavioral patterns is to keep on repeating it for at least 21 days. When the thought of not having money comes, laugh about it. Tell others that you “have this silly fear” that you may not have money for the things that you need. You see these fears only have power over you as long as you don’t confront it. As soon as you confront, and share it with others it will start to go away.

This is why it is important to raise your self esteem. People who have a low self esteem are generally unhappy. They believe that they are victims. And
because they think they are victims they expect bad things to happen to them which unfortunately do happen.

However the fact of the matter is nobody wants bad things to happen to them. That is why you need to build your self esteem up as it allows you to take charge of your life, because you’ll no longer feel like a victim.

People who have a high self esteem think of themselves as initiators of their success or anything they want. So instead of sitting and waiting for someone to do something for them they go out and do it for themselves. And when they do this their self esteem takes on a life of its own.

Because the more you do something for yourself the better you feel about yourself. So building self esteem is about doing something for yourself because you’re worth it and therefore deserve it.

The most difficult part of doing something worthwhile is usually the beginning and it is no different when building your self esteem. This is because most people who get to the point of building self esteem usually have a low self esteem when starting off. And the point of having to convince yourself that you’re worth doing something for, is usually the hardest part.

But it is worth it, because you are worth it. You are a fabulous human being with unique talents and abilities. You can be anything you want to be. If
nobody ever told you something good about yourself, doesn’t mean you are not worthy or beautiful. Its just that they were too blind to see what you were
about.

Building self esteem is about nurturing yourself and feeling good about yourself. You don’t have to wait for someone to tell you something good. Start giving yourself love. Start telling yourself the things you’ve always wanted to hear. Start treating yourself in the way you want to be treated, because that’s
exactly what building self esteem is about.

You no longer have to believe what somebody said to you or about you in the past. Thats done, its over with! Forgive those who hurt you or disappointed you in the past, and move on. Recognise that you are no longer a victim, you’re now a new person.

The more you do this, the higher your esteem will grow. So as you can see, nobody has to remain with a low self esteem. You can change it all and become a happier person by doing so.

What is self esteem and why is self esteem important. Self esteem is the image we have of ourselves. In other words, how you think of yourself or your opinion of yourself.

If you think of yourself as not good enough, or not good looking you have a low self esteem. On the other hand if you think of yourself, as good looking or deserving of the opportunities that come your way you, have a higher self esteem.

OK now we know what self esteem is, but the question begs. How do some get to have low self esteem, and others a high self esteem? Were we born like this, and can I change my self esteem from low to high?

Nobody is born with a low self esteem. We are all born with the potential to have a low or high self esteem. What determines whether we have a low or high self esteem is the environment within which we are born.

If the people who surround us. I’m now talking about your parents, siblings and so on. If they or even other family members shower you with love and always encourage you, you are likely to have a high self esteem.

Hower if you are someone who was for example born to teenage parents and is made to feel unwelcome, from the time you were born, you’re likely to suffer from a low self esteem.

So this shows that your environment plays a very big role in shaping you and that low or high self esteem is decided by people other than yourself.
However, nobody needs to remain with a low self esteem all their lives. You can do something about it.